Coming Home to a Country That Didn't Quite Feel Like Home
I came back to South Korea in 2020 thinking I'd feel like I belonged again. I was wrong. The plane touched down and I stepped out as an American citizen—my passport now foreign to my own country. It sounds dramatic, but it's the only way to describe that feeling. Everything looked familiar. The language was mine. The streets, the food, the culture—I grew up here. But the moment I tried to exist in this place, everything turned bureaucratic and unwelcoming. Six months. That's how long I had to wait for health insurance. Six months of being sick without coverage, of not knowing what would happen if something serious occurred. I needed a bank account—couldn't do it without jumping through hoops. An ID? More documentation, more waiting, more proving that I deserved to be here, even though I was born here. As a foreigner on paper, I wasn't quite welcome. The anxiety started small and then grew into this constant hum in my chest. I was a single mom. I needed to work....